Yes, how right you and your friends are but a real spanking would not allow you have all these feelings as your bare cheeks like this young naughty girl would be be feeling real pain and that is all you and your friends would be concentrating on the punisher to stop especially with some of the instruments you mention were being used. I never had any sexual feelings ever during a spanking. This was only a playful spanking for the punisher satisfaction of undressing her cheeks and display of pussy during it were exquisite I sure would have had her in tears and wriggling a lot more: her hands would not be coming back either to protect them, once maybe twice but after that the threat of six extra each time her hand appeared would soon put a stop to that.